Ephesians 4:31 - 32 - 31. Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice; 32. And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as GOD for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Matthew 5:38 - 39 - 38. Ye have heard that it hath been said, A eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: 39. But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on they right cheek, turn to him the other also
Proverbs 29:11 - 11. A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in till afterwards.
December 10th was the day of my FATHER'S funeral. My immediate family and I had met with all of our family members. Immediate and extended families. My immediate family and I were to be escorted to the church (Greater New Hope Anointed Ministries) by limo. Everyone lined their cars in position behind our limo so that they could follow us to the church.
I couldn't believe that I was in great spirits at that particular moment...knowingly that my heart was breaking every moment the clock ticks toward the time for my immediate family's arrival at the church for my FATHER'S funeral. I guess I just wanted to keep my mind off of the fact that my FATHER'S was going to be buried that day. So I decided to keep a brief smile on my face every chance I got to be happy, if it was for a brief moment after everything my immediate family and I went through with Minnie Lou for the last six months of my FATHER'S life. My immediate family's names were called to load into the limo.
We got into the limo starting with my mother Ruth, my twin sister Sherri and her husband Lorenzo, my son Zachary and myself, and my brother Wesley Jr. and his wife Neyome...since we were the only occupants (of the limo) to be escorted. Within minutes...my immediate family and I were escorted to the church. I felt in my heart at that particular moment the reality of what was going to occur once we were to arrived at the church. I wasn't ready to walk into the church to see my FATHER'S for the last time in his casket. I immediately burst into tears.
It wasn't easy to be in the same surrounding with Minnie Lou and everyone associated with her at the church. But...I decided to be a lady and accept the fact that she was my FATHER'S sister. At that particular moment, I decided to lay all of my differences with Minnie Lou aside so that my immediate family and I could bereave my FATHER in peace and grief. My immediate and extended families arrived at the church. The limo driver parked behind Charlow's hearse that carried my FATHER.
I looked towards the church with my face full of tears. My immediate family and I unloaded the limo and proceed into the church. My mother Ruth was in the lead. Sherri and her husband Lorenzo, my son Zachary and myself, brother Wesley Jr. and his wife Neyome and Sherri and Lorenzo's children, my niece Octavia and her husband Christopher, their children my great nieces Ta'Neisha, Laila and great nephew Christian and my nephew Justin Sr. followed along. We walked slowly into the church. I looked towards the entrance into the sanctuary...and there...I saw Minnie Lou dressed in a robe like she was trying to go against my immediate family wishes to preach my FATHER'S funeral.
I saw red. I dried my tears for a brief moment and I said to myself, "She is going to preach my FATHER'S funeral against my family's wishes anyway!" At that moment before entering the into the sanctuary, I looked over at Minnie Lou and I said, "Wow...how evil can a person be?" My immediate family and I continued our walk into the church for the viewing of my FATHER body before we were to be seated in front of the my FATHER'S casket.
The pastor Calvin McDonald was order of the service, officiating and he proceeded to preach my FATHER'S funeral with the Eulogy. I was happy about that. Then all of a sudden, after pastor McDonald gave his part in the Eulogy, this woman named Vanessa (Minnie Lou's) side kick decided to stand at the podium to place her 'one cent' into the with the invocation into Eulogy for my FATHER. I knew that with her devious ways, Minnie Lou (was going to have her way and get her word in edge wise) went against my immediate family's wishes not to say or preach anything at my FATHER'S funeral. She got her word in through Vanessa. My immediate family and I looked on with complete shock as those two women (Minnie Lou and Vanessa) worked together to get their one cent in over my FATHER'S lifeless body.
I let it go! The most important part was to honor my FATHER'S memory and his legacy in a celebration of his life. I was so happy when my aunt Nikki and my cousin Alkoya (an A class Celebrity) here in the USA, sung the most beautiful song over my FATHER'S body. Afterward...my cousin Catisha read my FATHER'S obituary. After that...last words (Words of Comfort) were given by pastor Calvin Callins before the last viewing of my FATHER'S body.
My twin sister Sherri and I were called up in front of our FATHER'S casket to close him down forever. I called for my brother Wesley Jr. to join in on the closing of our FATHER'S casket. I was to place my FATHER'S...Father's Day present (I never got chance to give him because of Minnie Lou) into his casket. And then all of a sudden...again...Minnie Lou interrupted Sherri, myself, and my brother from closing our FATHER down forever with a photographer taking pictures of my FATHER in his casket with his immediate and extended families surrounding him in his casket. Once again...Minnie Lou went against my immediate family wishes and interfered with the fact that my twin sister Sherri, my brother Wesley Jr. and I were to close our FATHER'S casket door down forever.
I looked over at Minnie Lou with haste. An anger that would kill a tick. It couldn't be helped needless to say, "Minnie Lou had a piece of the procession." Any way to be a part of my FATHER'S funeral activities where she was not welcomed from the start. Everyone in the audience was wondering what was happening around my FATHER'S casket, because it was a crowd surrounding his casket.
Minnie Lou made a mockery and a fool of herself going against what my immediate family did not want to happen and going against our wishes. After what had happened my twin sister Sherri, myself and my brother Wesley Jr. got one last look with our hearts braking and our eyes full of tears. We closed our FATHER down for eternity. I cried out very loud! My body was weaken, I couldn't walk back where I was seated.
My extreme hurt couldn't be helped. Sherri, Wesley Jr. and I knew were not going to see our FATHER by his mortal face again on this earth. Charlow's administration then rolled our FATHER casket out of the sanctuary's exit with my immediate family behind my FATHER'S casket. Everyone else followed along. My brother Wesley and my uncle Carl had made it towards the back of the hearse while my FATHER'S body was placed. All of a sudden...without any sympathy...Barbara Dixon (Minnie Lou's) other side kick, gave my uncle Carl and my brother Wesley Jr. a so called Executor of Estate letter (which didn't hold water for the plain paper it was forged on) stating that she would own my FATHER'S uniquely built grill by the name of Big Bertha.
It was Barbara's way stealing my FATHER'S grill, since my FATHER'S uniquely built grill (kitchen on wheels) was all she talked about instead being there at his side while he was deathly ill without talking about his grill. My FATHER wasn't in business with Barbara Dixon. He severed his business with her back in 2009 because she stole from the till (scheming) while selling dinners from his trailer. He saw her at the time from a distance when she thought he had gone to run an errand. My immediate family and I knew at that particular moment (when we talked about it) that it was all Minnie Lou's evil agenda with the so called Power of Attorney and the Executor of Estate letters to gain control of my FATHER'S estate over my immediate family.
Enough! My immediate family and I were so hurt that Barbara, Vanessa, and Minnie Lou could make a mockery of things under the microscope at my FATHER'S funeral without their families knowing what really happened. I really want their families to know once they read this post. I want the whole world to know what happened at my FATHER'S funeral before my FATHER took his last ride (Police escorted) to his eternal resting place, the Garden of Peace in Plant City, Florida. My immediate family and I will never forget the evil, the unjust, the disgust, their scandalous actions and all of the above of what happened at my FATHER'S funeral for as long as we live.
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